My dad went wild because of alchol My dad went wild today cause of alcohol, but my sister called police he got quiet and if police men out he goes wild and starts yelling, my sister made a video of him threatening us today.(yesterday)  well he grabbed my sisters hair and just trying to strip her hair, and been bugging us and he goes crazy, he just tries to punch me without a reason, "he said do you call me dumb?" well he's an idiot, he broke his tv remote control with strenght, i couldn't live like this, bugging me with punches and i try to stop him, when i tried to boil water for tea, he just went crazy and lift up the tea pot and put out, and he would of burnt of his hand, but i didn't let him put the tea pot somewhere, well he's been acting like this everyday, if he goes like this again today, he would get arrested for threatening me and my sister, but yesterday my sister pity on him, so they couldn't take him, my dad calmed down and went to bed, when my sister called police, when police men out he goes wild again, now today he broke plate, he's been drinking alchol, and doesn't go look for job, he steals moms money and goes buy alchol and tabacoo this is crazy, he would literary kill us.

Hmm, I'm not sure how I can help.
Have you tried asking him to stop drinking
alcohol? Since that seems to be the major
reason for the violence.

Well i told him, but he never stops, he started drinking when he was like 18, well he's a big liar, he never goes to work, never buys me new bike, only has money for alcohol and tabaco.

Well I think getting to the root cause of the problem will fix things.
I'm guessing he doesn't want to work (or can't work)
and doesn't want to get off the alcohol
perhaps because of depression or something bothering him.

Has the drinking problem happened recently or
has this been a problem for many years? (If so, is it worse now then it was back then or the same or better?)

I'm trying to figure out if it's a financial problem that's bothering him.
He could try getting back into education by doing a course
in whatever field he wants and can afford (or maybe there are free ones?)
and by doing work experience/volunteering in that field if possible.

This might lead to a job he likes, e.g. engineering, science, or something else.

I don't know how helpful this is.

Try to only reason with him when he's been drinking the least (or preferably when he's completely sober).
You can try to ask him if there are financial problems and what's causing them.
Then your family can think of a solution.

How is the economy in Lithuania?
Although maybe this isn't a helpful question as
everyone's financial situation differs.
Maybe there are less jobs or low paying jobs which is a factor in
what's bothering him?

Well it's the problem that low paying jobs in Lithuania there is but my dad will still buy alcohol even if he works, well he's been drinking alcohol since 18 so idk.

Sounds like you have a problem with your dad, My dad drinks beer, as well. but he doesn't go wild like that, he gets sleepy when he drinks, but I might have a idea to replace his beers with something else. Replace his beer with lemonade or sodas. If he drinks too much, it can cause a brain damage to him, I've read this in health class, but i'm sure it'll stop him, maybe. but Tell him to stop drinking beer or such. If he drinks, YOU TAKE IT AWAY and break it.

well he stopped drinking alcohol after valentines day, so when the event comes or festival he buys alcohol.

Ohh, Okay.

BeccaNighteon wrote:

If he drinks, YOU TAKE IT AWAY and break it.

Welcome back Becca.
But anyway I wouldn't recommend doing this.
Never provoke a person who's angry or drunk.

But I agree that alcohol causes brain damage as well as liver damage
and increases the level of oestrogen in the body. (Distrupting hormones like this is bad.)
It also leads to weight gain as it contains lots of empty useless calories.

XLR8 147 wrote:

BeccaNighteon wrote:

If he drinks, YOU TAKE IT AWAY and break it.

Welcome back Becca.
But anyway I wouldn't recommend doing this.
Never provoke a person who's angry or drunk.

But I agree that alcohol causes brain damage as well as liver damage
and increases the level of oestrogen in the body. (Distrupting hormones like this is bad.)
It also leads to weight gain as it contains lots of empty useless calories.

Looool.
if i could be a judge.. then i would be doing this.

Well my dad got a job now, so he's first day at new job he worked not so much, but tomorrow he will work long hours, if i'm getting a job at 20 in 2017, i'll be busy a lot, so i won't post anymore, but i'll still come online, oh and i'm gonna travel to Japan, when i save money, when i get it from the job for flight.

That's great.
Good luck to him and good luck to you.

Well okay, you know that in my school a lot of people are social and into alcohol and smoking well, maybe 20% gamers, half of my classmates are into alcohol and smoking, and half of them gamers and groupmates half of gamers, and half into alcohol and smoking.